Living Together: What You Need to Know Before Moving In

Thinking about sharing a roof with your partner? It sounds simple, but there are a few things most people overlook. From rent splits to legal rights, a clear plan saves headaches later. Below we break down the top questions and give you straight‑forward steps you can take right now.

Set Up the Basics: Money, Space & Responsibilities

First, talk money. Write down who pays rent, utilities, groceries and any other recurring bills. Even if you split everything 50/50, it helps to have a written note or a simple spreadsheet. This way both of you know what to expect and can avoid awkward “who forgot the electricity bill?” moments.

Next, decide how you’ll share chores. Some couples rotate kitchen duties, others set a cleaning schedule. The key is to pick a method that feels fair, not to let resentment build up. A quick weekly check‑in can keep things on track.

If you’re renting, read the lease together. Some landlords require both names on the agreement, while others only allow one tenant. Adding both names can give each partner legal protection, especially if the lease is broken or the landlord wants to terminate it.

Legal Side of Cohabitation in India

India doesn’t have a single “cohabitation law,” but several statutes touch on living together. For opposite‑sex couples, the Supreme Court has said that a consensual relationship isn’t a crime, provided it’s not against public order or morality. That means you can live together without fearing legal action, as long as you keep things private and respectful.

Same‑sex couples face a different landscape. While the decriminalization of Section 377 in 2018 removed the criminal penalty for consensual gay relationships, many family‑law provisions still assume a heterosexual marriage. This can affect inheritance, joint property, and any future adoption plans. It’s wise to draft a cohabitation agreement that outlines asset sharing, medical decisions and how you’ll handle a breakup.

When it comes to property, the concept of “adverse possession” allows someone who lives on land openly for 12 years to claim ownership, but only under very specific conditions. Most couples don’t rely on that, but it’s a reminder to put any joint purchases or leases in both names if you want shared ownership.

Finally, consider a power of attorney. If you’re serious about the partnership, granting each other medical or financial POA can be a practical safety net. It’s a simple document, but it avoids court delays if one of you becomes ill or incapacitated.

Living together isn’t just about love; it’s about planning. Talk early, write things down, and know the legal backdrop that applies to you. With clear communication and a few legal basics sorted, you can focus on building a happy home instead of worrying about what‑ifs.