Divorce Decree Virginia – What It Is and How to Get It

If you’re filing for divorce in Virginia, the final piece of paperwork you’ll receive is the divorce decree. It’s the court’s official order that ends the marriage and spells out who gets what – property, child support, custody, and more. Getting the decree right and understanding what it means can save you headaches later, so let’s walk through the basics.

Getting the Divorce Decree

The first step is filing your divorce petition. In Virginia you can do this online or at your local circuit court. If you qualify for a fee waiver – for example, if your household income is below a certain level – you can ask the clerk for a “Form 3” waiver. Fill out the waiver, attach proof of income, and submit it with your paperwork. Once the judge signs the final order, the clerk will issue the decree.

Most people receive the decree by mail, but you can also pick it up in person. If you filed an uncontested divorce (both sides agree on everything) the process can be as quick as 30‑45 days. In contested cases, the timeline stretches out because of hearings, discovery, and possible mediation.

When you get the decree, read it line by line. Look for the sections on property division, child support, custody, and any restraining orders. If something looks off, you have a short window – usually 30 days – to file a motion to modify or correct the order.

What to Do After You Receive the Decree

First, make copies. Keep one set in a safe place, another with your financial records, and a digital copy on a secure cloud drive. This makes it easy to reference the decree when you’re updating bank accounts, changing insurance beneficiaries, or filing taxes.

Next, follow the court‑ordered actions. If the decree says you must pay child support, set up automatic payments so you don’t miss a deadline. If it grants you custody, start the transition with your kids – pick up schedules, school records, and medical info as outlined.

For property division, the decree will tell you who gets which assets. Transfer titles, change deed records, and close joint accounts as needed. If the decree orders the sale of a house, the court will usually give a timeline for that sale.

Finally, consider post‑decree steps. If you need to enforce the decree (for example, the other spouse isn’t paying support), you can file a motion for contempt with the same court. If you’re ready to move on, you can also ask the court for a name change or a restoration of a previous name.

Need extra help? Many Virginia legal aid societies offer free or low‑cost advice for people who qualify for a fee waiver. Online resources like the Virginia Judicial System’s website provide printable forms and step‑by‑step guides. And if you’re looking for a DIY option, the “Free Divorce in Virginia (2025 Step‑by‑Step Guide)” post on our site walks you through every form and filing tip you’ll need.

Bottom line: a divorce decree is more than just a paper – it’s the roadmap for how you live after the marriage ends. Take the time to read it, follow the steps, and use the resources around you. With the right approach, you’ll keep the process smooth and avoid costly mistakes down the road.